“Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.” – Charlotte York

Over the past year I’ve neglected this blog but at the urging of my nearest and dearest, I’m back! I have tons of stories to update, both personal experiences and those shared by my girlfriends who share #thestruggle. As for me? I surrender. No, really. I give up. I’m sure you’ve heard of Bumble by […]

“Do any of you have a completely unremarkable friend or maybe a houseplant I could go to dinner with on Saturday night?” ~ Miranda Hobbes

A quick pause on the Italian Love Affair story for a check in on my current dating life aka tumbleweed central. As I’ve shared, I’m currently online dating and of course there are many special characters that flood my inbox, for example: Interesting….maybe those spelling/grammar errors were just autocorrect mistakes Nope, nope, I think those are just you […]

“I deleted Big.” ~ Carrie Bradshaw

Like every New York City dwelling 20/30-something year old woman, many of my love life ‘moments’ can be found in a scene of one our favorite movies – Sex and the City. Women of all backgrounds relate to Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte because they are us. The triumphs, the failures, the fears, the surprises and […]

“Men are bullshit.” ~ Carrie Bradshaw

I know it’s a bit harsh, but I’ve had a rough week – sue me. Scratch that, its been a rough few weeks. Let me give you some context… A few weeks back I decided to join an online dating site. I was bored, and if nothing else it’d keep me entertained. And entertained I […]

“I do not pick the wrong guys. They pick me.” ~ Carrie Bradshaw

My love life could be a book, a comedy, but not the romantic comedy type we all love with the happily ever after ending. Nope, mine would consist of stalkers, assholes, married men, panic attacks, and just about every possible variation of a bad first date. National surveys come out every year ranking New York […]