‘The most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous.’ – Carrie Bradshaw

I went on an adventure a month ago that changed me forever, seriously. One of the many items on my life long, never ending, bucket list included a week long solo trip. I travel a ton and have been to over 25 countries, but I have never gone anywhere for more than 2 days completely […]

‘He doesn’t even know me , the least he could do is get to know me before he rejects me.’ Miranda Hobbes

Dating, or lack thereof, has me mentally exhausted. That’s an understatement. Funny enough, I think my mom is more exhausted than I am. Anytime I mention my weekend plans she follows it with, “Oh, that sounds nice, maybe you’ll meet your husband!” I honestly think she thought I was gay up until a few years […]

“He’s just not that into you, so move on” – Miranda Hobbes

I’m baaaacccck. New city, still no sex. So much and so little has happened over the course of the past year. I moved to a new city and met a great guy on bumble….who six months later turned out to be a complete asswipe. So, here I am, back on the bumble/tinder/insert new app here […]

“Maybe our girlfriends are our soulmates and guys are just people to have fun with.” – Charlotte York

Over the past year I’ve neglected this blog but at the urging of my nearest and dearest, I’m back! I have tons of stories to update, both personal experiences and those shared by my girlfriends who share #thestruggle. As for me? I surrender. No, really. I give up. I’m sure you’ve heard of Bumble by […]

“This love stuff is a motherfucker.” ~ Samantha Jones

I apologize in advance for this post being all over the place, but such is my life. Lets start with the fun stuff…my online dating inbox. It’s getting a bit ridiculous, its also really hard to keep up with everyone I do engage in conversation with. I’m thinking about starting a spreadsheet with their stats. […]

Aleksandr Petrovsky 2.0 Part I

From as far back as I can remember, I had this idea in my mind that I would meet and marry a distinguished italian business man. I could see him in my teenage dreams, tall, slender, dark features, hair not too long but not too short, eyes that would make any woman melt, italian accent, […]

“I deleted Big.” ~ Carrie Bradshaw

Like every New York City dwelling 20/30-something year old woman, many of my love life ‘moments’ can be found in a scene of one our favorite movies – Sex and the City. Women of all backgrounds relate to Carrie, Samantha, Miranda, and Charlotte because they are us. The triumphs, the failures, the fears, the surprises and […]